My First CouchSurfing Experience
CouchSurfing is a community of travelers, backpackers, nomads, and pretty much everyone else on a global scale. People from all walks of life can be found among its members. What these people, including me, have done is gone to the website and created a profile. Most people agree to host travelers in their home, though it is not required. Some simply agree to meet with travelers coming to their village/town/city and show them around. The level of commitment and participation is entirely up to the individual member. Up until a few months before I left for China I was not a member of CouchSurfing and I knew virtually nothing about it. This past weekend in Guilin was my first experience surfing on someone’s couch and it has opened a whole new world to me.
A week before I left for my trip I made contact with several people on CouchSurfing living in Guilin. I found someone who agreed to let me stay on his couch for a night, all was good. For the rest of the week I tried to create a rough plan for what I really wanted to see while in the Guangxi province. This person, Leo, and I wrote many emails back and forth, discussing what I should do and my options on how to do it. With a day or two left I decided to change my plans and extend my stay in Guilin from one to two nights. Thankfully it was no problem for him.
Before meeting Leo I had no idea what to expect. Really, truly no idea. As it turns out Leo is an incredibly generous and nice person. He put me up in his dorm room for two nights. He arranged and prepaid for my day trip to Longsheng (before even meeting me, now that’s trust). He set up a dinner that other CouchSurfers came to and took us out for drinks afterwords. He showed me around the city and gave me great advice for what to do during my time in Guilin. It’s hard to describe how taken aback I was by Leo’s ability and willingness to play host to a complete stranger. That sort of attitude is something I really admire and hope to emulate if a traveler wishes to surf on my couch.
This reminds me a lot of the Diplomacy hobby and the people in it. So many of the people I know and care about in the hobby are incredibly generous people. For the people that travel great distances to attend tournaments all over the country there is always a dedicated group of locals that are more than happy to entertain, give advice, and go out for drinks. Half the time (if not more) there is an open invitation for travelers to sleep on couches or floors or spare beds for free. My favorite part of the game is the people I meet and the friendships that I have formed. Through it I know I can show up half-way across the USA and be taken care of and accommodated. So in this way the community of CouchSurfers is reminiscent of the Diplomacy players around the USA and I just love that. It excites me to know that there is more than one group of people in the world (I’m sure there are many more, I just don’t know them) who are willing to open their homes to complete strangers and take them in just as they would an old friend.
For those of you that want to travel but are restricted by cost, consider CouchSurfing. More likely than not you can find someone to put you up for absolutely free. On top of that, your host will probably show you around and have great advice for places to see or eat and things to do. And on top of that, you will make a new friend in a new place. To me, connections like these are priceless. But really CouchSurfing is not just for those traveling on a budget, it’s for anyone who wants to experience a travel destination in a whole new way and make some friends along the way.
Alright, alright. Enough of my proselytizing. You get the picture. I love CouchSurfing and I think you should all check it out if you haven’t already. I truly believe that it is groups like these that make the world go ’round. OK, that’s all I’m gonna say. Honest…. Seriously, go check it out.
Damn!
I know I should be talking about my time in Guilin. But really my best impression of the place is how awesome Leo was and how great I now know the community of CouchSurfers to be. You still want an evaluation? Alright, fine, here’s the short and sweet of it. Guilin is a relatively small city (1 million people) with some of the best countryside I have ever seen. It is up and coming and I feel it has a lot to offer in terms of tourist destinations and nightlife. That being said, I enjoyed Yangshuo more because it has much more of the same beautiful scenery and it is still an out-of-the-way, sleepy little town compared to Guilin. Yangshuo is a backpacker’s paradise while Guilin is more for the traveler who wants a bit more luxury and modernity.
That’s all I got. Coffee in the afternoon is never a good idea. Now I’m totally wired and I can’t think straight. Here are some more pictures from around Guilin, I will upload the rest later.
That’s right, I climbed another mountain (3 in 3 days!). This is the view from the top of the mountain at Seven Star Park. What you are seeing is the Glory of China Square.
I was especially excited to see this, being an engineer and all-around nerd/dork/geek. It is the largest artificial water fall in the world! Boo-yah! For ten minutes every night this show goes on. Basically it’s just watching water fall down the side of a building with music, but I thought it was quite impressive. I mean, that’s a lot of water. The largest artificial water fall in the world is part of the, you guessed it, Waterfall Hotel. The name gives it away, I think.
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omg, i think you are talking to the next couchsurfing fan. christa talked about it a bit.. and ive heard good things from others. there are SO MANY travelers who come thru humboldt for various reasons, and i like traveling as well (the cheaper the better, too!) mmm… i get to travel in 2 days. no couch surfing for me tho, more like festival camping. but you get to meet lots of awesome new people.
lololol, and you TOTALLY know better than to drink coffee in the afternoon. this was fun, seeing the result of you blogging all caffeinated. i really dig that artifical waterfall. thats so rad that you met leo. try to get him to xi’an if he hasnt been there before.
What a terrific opportunity! I’d love to do something like this, but my husband doesn’t like the idea of traveling this way. It’s a terrific way to save money and meet people with similar interests. Although we are not members of Couchsurfing, we have been known to lend our couch out to anyone who asks. A few months ago, we put up Nomadic Matt for a few nights. And we’ve had other friends come and spend time with us in our home as well. Our door is generally open to those who don’t mind a hard couch and early risers! Let us know if you ever make it to Taiwan…
PS>I’m glad your trip was such a positive experience. Your photos are fantastic.
PSS> Something is up with your RSS. I can’t subscribe.
Couchsurfing is an awesome project…glad to see you had a good first experience.
Awesome site and how long do you plan to stay teaching ESL?
These pictures are something else, Graham! The architecture, the landscapes, I can’t get enough. Keep it up.
Awesome information, most likely the coolest blog I’ve read in a long time. I’ll defitely be a couchsurfer now!!
@laura: CouchSurfing truly is a great experience and I highly recommend you join. You will get the opportunity to meet some great people with amazing stories to tell. Leo has been to Xi’an before, but I was sure to tell him he always had a place to stay on my couch. He is a great guy.
@Carrie: Don’t be surprised when I take you up on your offer! Though I think it may be a bit difficult to get from mainland China to Taiwan…. Thanks for generous words, it’s much appreciated. As you already know, I am way, way down in the depths of amateur land. I’m trying though.
@Chris: Thanks for the kind words and thanks for stopping by! I don’t have any definite plan at the moment, but I think I will be staying for a year (through January 2010). Nothing is set in stone at the moment, so who knows?
@Alan: I will certainly try my best, thank you.
@Linz: I can’t say enough how great of an experience CouchSurfing can be. But don’t forget that you can just as easily have a bad experience. Be smart, be careful, keep your wits about you and you’ll have a great time, promise.
Wow, guys. Just wow. I swear by next week my head is going to explode from an over-inflated ego. Seriously I am so flattered that anyone actually comes to my blog much less enjoys it. It’s an honor and it makes me so proud that you all enjoy my writing and my pictures. I am studying up all the time on blogging and photography so hopefully my stuff will improve and you can all take part in and enjoy my journey (cliche, I know, but I had to throw it in there). Cheers!
With the utmost gratitude and humility,
Your friend, Graham.
hope you can enjoy CS forever!
ur 1st CS host-leo
Aw, G… I recently asked your brother if you had studied photography or taken any classes. There were a few photos that really caught my eye and, having taken an interest in the art myself, I was curious. It seems that you really have an eye for it… and a storyteller’s voice as well!
Hey, that’s cool information. I have thought about this from time to time but never pulled the trigger. I am encouraged to do so now. Dude, next time you’re down this way, we actually have a bed for you!
CouchSurfing is truly one of the best things in the world. I believe in the kindness and generosity of strangers and this loose association goes so far in proving that point. I am slowly converting my fellow teachers here into believers and hopefully I can change other people’s minds through my site. At the very least I will keep trying!
I am a couch-surfer as well! I heard about this program from a couple from Netherlands. Couch surfer offered a feedback system, if you have lots of good feedbacks, then in the future if you request to be hosted, people are more likely to accept you. Personally i feel it’s a good system, all real people, great idea! Graham, i am glad to see you had started the couch-surfer experience. Leo seems really generous buddy.
I finally went on my first trip around the World with couch-surfers. I can honestly say it was one of the best experiences of my life. I traveled to every corner of the World seeing things I could only dream of. I will say out of all the places I went it was so hard to stay in contact over the phone. I searched the internet, up and down, looking for cheap ways to make international calls. After many hours of research I found the cheapest and most reliable product was TalkBox (www.talkboxme.com). I fell in love with TalkBox but it will never replace my love for Couch-surfing. My name is John, I live in L.A. and my couch is always open to anyone traveling through. Thanks to all the couch-surfers that made my dreams come true.